#0033 He’s Just Not That Into You ~ Alex talking to Gigi

Man: Conor’s never gonna call you.
Woman: Oh, really. How do you know?
Man: Because I’m a guy, and it’s just how we do it.
Woman: He said it was nice meeting me.
Man: I don’t…I don’t care if he said you were his favorite female……since his mommy and Joanie Cunningham. Over a week went by, okay, Gigi? And he didn’t call you.
Woman: But maybe he did call and I didn’t get the message. Or maybe he lost my number……or he’s out of town, or got hit by a cab, or his grandma died.
Man: Or maybe he just didn’t call because he has no interest in seeing you again.
Woman: Yeah. But my friend Terri once went out with a guy who never called. She totally wrote him off. Over a year goes by.
Man: Right.
Woman: And she ran into him, and it ended up the date…
Man: Your friend Terri’s an idiot. And she’s also the exception……by the way. The rare exception.
Woman: Okay. Okay. But what if I’m the exception?
Man: No, you’re not. You’re not at all. In fact, you’re the rule. And the rule is this: If a guy doesn’t call you, he doesn’t wanna call you.
Woman: Really?
Man: Yeah.
Woman: Always?
Man: Yeah, always. Look, I know what blowing off a woman looks like, okay? I do it early, I do it often. So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn’t give a shit……he genuinely doesn’t give a shit. No exceptions.
Woman: Thank you. Give me a lot to think about.